There are many things that go into creating a successful relationship but good communication skills is at the top of the list. It is the one topic that is addressed in nearly all of my marriage coaching or relationship coaching sessions regardless of the goal the couple has for coaching. Consider that communication is at the heart of everything we do with our romantic partner, from negotiating household responsibilities, planning a date night, or engaging in intimacy. The way we speak and listen to one another is the most important factor in a long healthy relationship.