How do you stop fighting and get what you want? There is a myth that if someone loves us they should know what we want, what we need, what we're really saying. No one knows what we want unless we tell them.
Choice is empowering even if you decide not to change a thing you will feel better knowing you have options. Choice isn't always about doing something different but about realizing that you could.
It can be difficult when you know you are unhappy but aren't sure what to do about it. Sometimes it can be seemingly small things that make us unhappy such as not having quality time with a significant other or constant small stressors making it hard to enjoy life.
Try changing something small rather than trying to change several things or making major changes. For example, setting up a weekly coffee date with friends or establishing a date-night with your spouse to get some quality time.